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GUARD YOUR SPEECH

MARCH 23, 2014

 THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK (PROVERBS 17:27-28; 21:23)
Pro 17:27 He who restrains his words has knowledge, And he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.
Pro 17:28 Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent.
Pro 21:23 He who guards his mouth and his tongue, Guards his soul from troubles.     NASB 

All of the above are stated positively! 

VERSE 27: 

“He is of a cool spirit (so some read it), not heated with passion, nor put into any tumult or disorder by the impetus of any corrupt affection, but even and stayed. A cool head with a warm heart is an admirable composition. 2. by the good government of his tongue. (1.) a wise man will be of few words, as being afraid of speaking amiss: He that has knowledge, and aims to do good with it, is careful, when he does speak to speak to the purpose, and says little in order that he may take time to deliberate.”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

·        One who refuses, holds back, reserves, spares his words knows knowledge, and he who has a quiet life, quiet breath, quiet anger is a man of discretion, reason, skillfulness, understanding.
VERSE 28:
·        Even a perverse, silly foolish man, when he ceases, let’s alone, conceals, speaks not a word is thought to be intelligent, skillful, wise; when he shuts, stops his speech, is thought of as being eloquent and having intelligence.
VERSE 23:
·        He who hedges about (as with thorns), protects, attends to, is circumspect, takes heed his speech and his tongue, guards his vitality, breath, life, soul from adversity, affliction, anguish, distress, tribulation, trouble. 

RECOGNIZE THE POWER OF WORDS (PROVERBS 18:19-21)
Pro 18:19 A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city, And contentions are like the bars of a citadel.
Pro 18:20 With the fruit of a man's mouth his stomach will be satisfied; He will be satisfied with the product of his lips.
Pro 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.     NASB 

Good:
A man will be satisfied in his stomach (Innermost being) with the good that his mouth speaks, they will also give life (joy, that which is very pleasant).
Bad:
An offended brother is very difficult to win back.
Death of joy that which is very pleasant and will be the lot of those who speak evil: they will reap the consequences of their speech. 

VERSE 19: 

“No discords are like those of brethren; the nearer the union, the greater the separation upon a breach; for natural ties being stronger than artificial, when they are once broken, they are hardly made up again, as seams when they are ripped may be sown again; but rents in the whole cloth are not so easily remedied.” (H. G. Salter.) 

·        This verse hints at a very close relationship, we should be extra careful about our valued relationships because we could lose them with a few careless words. 
VERSE 20:
·        Some commentaries equates the stomach here with the conscience, then our conscience will be a comfort or a source of regret and pain according to the words of our mouth has been to others.
VERSE 21: 

I.                   The tongue is like a steed (Jas_3:3-5): (1) When it speaks too much; (2) when it is boasting; (3) when it is angry.
Jas 3:3 Now if we put the bits into the horses' mouths so that they will obey us, we direct their entire body as well.
Jas 3:4 Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires.
Jas 3:5 So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire!      NASB
II.                The tongue is like a sword (Psa_57:4): (1) Against the weak and helpless; (2) against sacred things and holy persons. Psa 57:4  My soul is among lions; I must lie among those who breathe forth fire, Even the sons of men, whose teeth are spears and arrows And their tongue a sharp sword.     NASB
III.             The tongue is like a serpent (Psa_140:3): (1) when it slanders; (2) when it flatters.
Psa 140:3 They sharpen their tongues as a serpent; Poison of a viper is under their lips. Selah.     NASB
The tongue is like fire (Jas_3:6). It is like fire when it speaks profane or foul words in the hearing of others; because those who hear them speak them again, and so the evil spreads and spreads.
Jas 3:6  And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell.     NASB
J. Stalker, The New Song, p. 24. 

GUARD AGAINST GOSSIP (PROVERBS 11:13; 26:20-24)
Pro 11:13 He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, But he who is trustworthy conceals a matter.
Pro 26:20 For lack of wood the fire goes out, And where there is no whisperer, contention quiets down.
Pro 26:21 Like charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, So is a contentious man to kindle strife.
Pro 26:22 The words of a whisperer are like dainty morsels, And they go down into the innermost parts of the body.
Pro 26:23 Like an earthen vessel overlaid with silver dross Are burning lips and a wicked heart.
Pro 26:24 He who hates disguises it with his lips, But he lays up deceit in his heart.     NASB

Good:
He who is trustworthy covers over secrets and contentions stop.
Bad:
He who not trustworthy reveals secrets to the hurt of others, contentions continue to flare up,
their words are tasty but poisonous, they themselves are cheap, are full of deceit, and have hatred in their hearts. 

VERSE 13:

A talebearer: “…he may be a man in whose own conscience there is a sore place. He knows something against himself. He is conscious of some lurking, some secret, some bosom sin. And it is a relief to him to hope that others are not so much better than himself. He finds a solace in his wretchedness in making company for his sin. (3) There are others who cannot bear superiors. They do not like superiors in station, but superiors in character they cannot brook. Their only comfort is in a general disbelief of virtue. A ridiculous story to tell of the eminently good is to them as a draught of water to the thirsty.”
C. J. Vaughan, Lessons of Life and Godliness, p. 1. 

VERSE 20: 

“Contention is as a fire; it heats the spirit, burns up all that is good, and puts families and societies into a flame. Now here we are told how that fire is commonly kindled and kept burning, that we may avoid the occasions of strife and so prevent the mischievous consequences of it.”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

VERSE 21: 

“These sayings all picture the harm done by those who deliberately use their tongues to damage the reputations of others, to spark "strife," and hence to disrupt the peace of the community. The "tale-bearer" ("slanderer" is the stronger translation and brings out the malicious character assassination which can be the result of vile gossip…”
The Preacher’s Commentary 

VERSE 22: 

The slanderer looks upon his nasty words as tasty tidbits, delicious morsels of raw gossip.
Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary 

VERSE 23: 

“The meaning of this proverb is not far from Jesus' remarks to His enemies that they were like whitewashed tombs. No amount of painting on the outside changes the value of the rotten interior.”
Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary 

VERSE 24: 

“No one counterfeits pennies or even one-dollar bills, as far as I know. They do counterfeit twenty-dollar bills. They only counterfeit that which is valuable. So we should not be surprised to see counterfeit Christians. This cluster of proverbs describes the phony and warns against him. He is the man who is two-faced. He will flatter you, yet in his heart he will hate you.”
Thru The Bible with J. Vernon McGee 

GUARD AGAINST FALSEHOOD (PROVERBS 10:18-19; 12:17-19)
Pro 10:18 He who conceals hatred has lying lips, And he who spreads slander is a fool.
Pro 10:19 When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, But he who restrains his lips is wise.
Pro 12:17 He who speaks truth tells what is right, But a false witness, deceit.
Pro 12:18 There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, But the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Pro 12:19 Truthful lips will be established forever, But a lying tongue is only for a moment.     NASB 

Good:
A person of few words is considered wise, will speak what is right and bring healing with their words and will be fully established.
Bad:
One who as hatred will conceal their deceit and lie with impunity, as a fool will repeat slander, give false witness, wound others ruthlessly and will perish.

VERSE 18: 

“By hating another person you may become a liar or a fool. If you try to conceal your hatred, you end up lying. If you slander the other person and are proven wrong, you are a fool. The only way out is to admit your hateful feelings to God. Ask him to change your heart, to help you love instead of hate.”
Life Application Study Bible 

VERSE 19: 

“It is a sin against the speaker himself. A man whose tongue is always wagging, is doing a serious injury to his own intellectual and spiritual nature.
1. Great volubility is a substitute for thought. The man mistakes words for thoughts. Plato says, “As empty vessels make the loudest sound, so they that have the least wit are the greatest babblers.”
2. Great volubility is a quietus to thought. The man who has the power of talking without thinking will soon cease to think:”
The Biblical Illustrator 

VERSE 17: 

“A faithful witness commended for an honest man. He that makes conscience of speaking truth, and representing every thing fairly, to the best of his knowledge,…”
“A false witness condemned for a cheat; he shows forth deceit, not only how little conscience he makes of deceiving those he deals with, but how much pleasure he takes in it, and that he is possessed by a lying spirit,”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

VERSE 18: 

“Whisperings and evil surmises, like a sword, divide and cut asunder the bounds of love and friendship, and separate those that have been dearest to each other.”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

VERSE 19:
·        Truthful words speak of eternal things and are already established.
·        Lies spoken will not pass beyond this life, they will not have any place in eternity. 

USE WORDS TO HELP AND HEAL (PROVRBS (25:11-13; 31:8-9)
Pro 25:11 Like apples of gold in settings of silver Is a word spoken in right circumstances.
Pro 25:12 Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise reprover to a listening ear.
Pro 25:13 Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest Is a faithful messenger to those who send him, For he refreshes the soul of his masters.
Pro 31:8 Open your mouth for the mute, For the rights of all the unfortunate.
Pro 31:9 Open your mouth, judge righteously, And defend the rights of the afflicted and needy.     NASB 

All of these verses express a positive. 

VERSE 11: 

“Solomon here shows how much it becomes a man, 1. To speak pertinently: A word upon the wheels, that runs well, is well-circumstanced, in proper time and place - instruction, advice, or comfort, given seasonably, and in apt expressions, adapted to the case of the person spoken to and agreeing with the character of the person speaking -”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

VERSE 12: 

“Especially to give a reproof with discretion, and so as to make it acceptable. If it be well given, by a wise reprover, and well taken, by an obedient ear,”
Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible 

VERSE 13: 

“That snow was frequent in Judea, is well known; and that in the East they have snow-houses - places dug under ground, where they lay up snow for summer use - is also a fact. By means of the mass of snow desposited in them the icy temperature is kept up, so that the snow is easily preserved. The common method of cooling their wine, which is as easy as it is effectual, is by dipping a cloth in water, wrapping it round the bottle, and then hanging the bottle in the heat of the sun. The strong evaporation carries off the caloric from the wine, and the repetition of the wet cloth in the same exposure, makes the wine almost as cold as ice.”
Adam Clarke’s Commentary on the Bible 

VERSE 8: 

“If Lemuel's "mouth" is to be closed to carousing, it is to be "open" to correcting. Again (see Pro_31:5) the concern is for those who cannot help themselves: "Speechless" does not here mean literally "dumb" (Isa_35:5) but so overwhelmed with fear, anxiety, and isolation as to be rendered speechless before the accusers;”
The Preacher’s Commentary 

VERSE 9: 

“she advises him to do the duties of his office in administering impartial justice to all, and particularly in being the advocate and judge of the indigent and distressed.”
John Gill’s Exposition of the Entire Bible

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